Eating…. again…🐷 (at Xin Wang Hong Kong Cafe)
Two months into this relationship and I am feeling better with each and every day that passes. We have our sissy five-minute fights here and there, but it’s nothing a little understanding and compromise can’t fix.
What I’m saying is, maybe I’m just one of the lucky few who can’t complain at all about the guy in my life.
He fetches me everyday from work (willingly, if I may add to that).
He comes over to have lunch with me (maybe one of the reasons I’m gaining pounds again).
He gives me my space but always reminds me how much he loves me.
He is respectful to my family and understands that his girlfriend is a weird junkie who likes hitting people when she gets excited.
He understands that I like sleeping through bus rides and thus, lets me sleep on his big biceps (which will keep atrophying if we keep eating like this).
I wake up at 4am everyday because the hospital I am training at is a two-and-a-half to three-hour commute from my place. He, on the other hand, has review class at 2pm. The thing that warms my heart the most would probably be the fact that he actually gets up at 4am just to send me my good morning message. Since the moment we dated to the moment we got together, and up to this day… Not a single morning in my life has been message-less.
I wake up every morning thanking God and praying that this relationship will work out. After all, during my previous blogs I’ve reiterated this over and over again.. Nothing is permanent. Nothing is 100% sure (I just hope this one is)
This is pretty much the first blog I’ve written about him so I’m sorry for the cheesiness. It just feels good to find someone who doesn’t just make you gush with hormonal joy.
Trust me, I’m over the whole butterflies thing. I’ve gotten the whole “teenage kilig” under control since I turned nineteen a year ago. The happiness this relationship brings me is more of because I just can’t believe I found someone who seems like he was custom-built to be my partner-in-crime.
I never looked for this. Honestly, I was enjoying the single life already. I had my weight under control (Damn you, boyfriend! For making me fat!) and I was fine with casually knowing guys. Commitment? Blah. But then, he came along and my one-date-rule was thrown put the window. I will never forget the consistency he showed me. Eventually, you can’t help but fall for a guy like that. Engram formation, hahaha!
The way he treats and respects me, but at the same time casually teases and makes makes me roll over on the floor laughing, it is just simply amazing.
That, plus the fact that he cooks pretty well.
Don’t ever put your happiness in someone else’s hands. They’ll drop it. They’ll drop it every time.
Nothing is sexier than someone who wants you as much as you want them.